How to Be Interesting

by Jonathan Morrow

Interesting

“Be interesting.”

It’s good advice, but it’s nothing new. You’ve probably known from the beginning that being able to interest readers is a crucial part of growing a popular blog. It’s pretty obvious that no one is going to stick around unless they find your blog interesting.

But how are you supposed to do it exactly? How can you “be interesting?”

Far too much of what we write about attention and interest is abstract. We talk about differentiation, value, and triggers — all useful concepts, but you can’t point to them. You can’t hold out your hand and say, “Give me some differentiation.” As a result, it’s hard to wrap your mind around what those things actually mean.

I’d like to change that. Over the past few weeks, I’ve paid attention to the things that command attention, both of myself and others, and I’ve made a list of 21 techniques that work. It’s far from all of them I’m sure, but it should be enough to get you started.

1. Be wrong: The world is full of people trying to do the right things. It’s become so common that many of us are bored by it. We long for someone that is willing to do the wrong thing, say the wrong thing, be the wrong thing. If you have the courage to be that person, you’ll find lots of people paying attention to you.

2. Be right: You can also gain attention by being right… but only if you’re more right than everyone else. Run a mile faster than anyone else, explain your topic more clearly than anyone else, be funnier than everyone else. Embody perfection, and people will take notice.

3. Communicate what others can’t: As writers, we take ideas from our heads and put them on the page. Sometimes we forget how difficult that is for some people and how valuable that makes us. Lots of people would give anything to be able to say what they mean. But they can’t. So, they turn to songs, books, and art that communicate for them. Be a producer of those things, and you’ll never lose their attention.

4. Do something: Everybody online is trying to say something important, but very few are trying to do something important. If you want attention, dare not to just give advice to others, but to live that advice yourself. Then blog about it.

5. Surprise people: Chip and Dan Heath, authors of Made to Stick, say that one of the best ways to set yourself apart is to break people’s “guessing machines.” Take a surprising position, making outlandish analogy, or otherwise do the opposite of what you normally do. As long as it’s unexpected, people will stop and pay attention.

6. Make people laugh: Bloggers are far too serious. We’re so busy trying to teach that we forget to entertain. As a result, large portions of our readerships fall asleep. And what’s the best way to wake people up? Humor. Public speakers have been using it for ages, and as long as it’s appropriate for your audience, humor can wake your readers up and get them paying attention again.

7. Offer them an aspirin: Some of the best blog posts ever written are simple as an aspirin. Your reader has a headache, you have a cure, so you offer them that cure in the form of a blog post. They pay attention… not because of how pretty or well crafted your blog post is, but because it cures their headache. Conclusion: try acting like a pharmacist, not a blogger, and you’ll never lack for attention.

8. Show a (half) naked woman: Ever noticed that a disproportionate number of advertisements feature a scantily clad woman? That’s because it works. It draws the attention of not only men (as you’d expect), but also women. For whatever reason, nearly everyone finds their attention drawn to it. Here’s proof that it even works with blog posts.

9. Tell them who they are: “Who am I?” is not just a question; it’s a universal quest that most of us follow for our entire lives, continually defining and redefining ourselves, always insecure about whether who we are being is really us. As a blogger, you can (and should) harness that insecurity. Turn your blog into something that defines your readers, like this one, this one, and this one.

10. Predict the future: Every once in awhile, use your expertise to make a bizarre claim about the future. If you have any authority at all, people will take notice. Imagine if Brian wrote a convincing, well reasoned argument that online courses are the business model of the future. Oh wait… he did, and some of the biggest names in Internet marketing continue to talk about it.

11. Unleash your inner dork: Many blog posts are like miniature textbooks; they’re instructive, well-organized, and put you to sleep with their lack of enthusiasm. If you want to become famous on the web, stop trying to sound like an all-knowing teacher and unleash the “inner dork” inside of you — the part of you that’s so enamored with your topic that everyone else thinks it’s funny… but they pay attention anyway. More on dorkyness here.

12. Be courageous: Most of the videos on YouTube are there to make you laugh, but amongst them, you’ll find this rare gem that has attracted the attention of over 9 million people. The fact is, pretty much everyone has felt the foot of adversity on their neck, but very few of us respond to it with courage and grace. Be one of those people, and you’ll find the world watching.

13. Be startlingly honest: Every once in awhile, tell the truth. Be so honest that you’re scared to click the “Post” button. Be so honest that no one knows what to say in the comments section. Be so honest that your lawyer tells you to stop. You’ll feel better… and people will talk about you.

14. Be irreverent: Want to stir people up? Make fun of their god, their politics, their family — anything they hold dear. Yes, they’ll be offended, but lots of other people will think it’s hilarious. If you can’t stomach being hated by a portion of the world and loved by another, then you don’t deserve to have a blog.

15. Tell a good story: This one has been drilled into us so many times that I almost didn’t include it… except for one thing: people still don’t get it. Yes, stories support your points, make solid openers, and teach people while entertaining them, but a good story can make you a legend. I’m not talking about the little anecdotes that pepper the blogosphere. I’m talking about the story that haunts you on your deathbed. Forget about all the others. Tell me that one.

16. Break an important piece of news: Every time Google does something new, thousands of bloggers write about it. That’s great for Google, but where’s the real benefit for the bloggers? The first one to break the story is the only one that matters. It gets all of the traffic, links, and authority. Everyone else is just an echo.

17. Disprove the proven: For a long time, everyone thought you had to be the best to be successful. Then Chris Anderson came along and turned the world upside down with The Long Tail. He disproved what a lot of people held to be true, and it made him (even more) famous. Granted, it’s hard to engineer a breakthrough, but if you run across one, people will talk about you for years.

18. Pick the perfect picture: Want to make a good post better? Pick a picture that expresses exactly what you mean, and put it at the top of your post. Yes, it takes time, but the extra traffic is more than worth it.

19. Master the metaphor: Metaphors are the paths we create to lead our readers to our ideas. Create one strong enough, and it will become a highway of attention, leading readers to your blog more quickly than any other technique here (except maybe the last one. More on metaphors here.

20. Create a work of art: Many bloggers crank out posts the way slaughterhouses crank out chickens. They’re ugly things, fit for nothing but consumption. If you want to surprise people, stop and put some actual effort into your blog posts, creating a work of art. You’ll be surprised by how many people remember it long after it’s been swept off your front page.

21. Put your readers first: Yes, you’re the blogger. Yes, you’re the one with talent. Yes, you’re the one working your tail off. But it doesn’t matter. The one and only thing of consequence is your reader. You can rail against this fact for as long as you like, but as long you do, you’ll never be interesting.

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About the Author: Jon Morrow is an Associate Editor of Copyblogger and co-author of Keyword Research for Bloggers.

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1 Daniel Smith July 18, 2008 at 9:35 am

Hey, interesting post. (Someone had to.)

I barely know where to start, you made so many points, but one that stuck out was the aspirin comment. When I started blogging, I found that helping people, and solving issues was the best way to drive grateful traffic. And grateful people are happy people.

In fact, sometimes just solving a problem you yourself have and assuming others have it too can be effective. Case in point, I wrote a post on why I left Wordpress.com for Blogger and another on how I’ve come to use Google Reader as my web brain.

Both were borne out of personal frustration, but they have been two of my most popular posts to date (and neither contained scandalously clad women.)

Great article Jon, thanks for sharing!

Daniel Smith

2 Anuj Adhiya July 18, 2008 at 9:48 am

“Be Wrong” - that for me is probably the hardest thing to do.
It’s so difficult putting yourself in a position that might invite (unwanted) criticism. But as you mentioned - thats not really the point - the point is to get people to pay attention and respond.
Thanks
A.
PS - The Borat example is perfect - gave me my chuckle for the day.

3 Jeff Crites July 18, 2008 at 9:52 am

Not surprisingly, another gem from CopyBlogger, the type of post to read and re-read. And then read again, before ‘doing something’.

4 Daniel Smith July 18, 2008 at 9:57 am

Whoops. I meant to type “scantily clad women” in my comment above… but I guess scandalously works too. As typos go…

5 Karen Putz July 18, 2008 at 10:10 am

Give me the scantily clad men and I’ll agree to this. :)

6 Jonathan Mead July 18, 2008 at 10:20 am

Some of these points have obviously been stated before, but you did a good job of adding freshness to them. Kudos to you for that.

7 Dedrick Sprick July 18, 2008 at 10:30 am

My faves from this list are “be wrong”, “communicate what others can’t” and “do something”. Thanks for the blogging tips.

8 Evelyn Lim | Attraction Mind Map July 18, 2008 at 10:38 am

Great tips! I’ve enjoyed this article!

9 Sherwin July 18, 2008 at 10:41 am

Man, that video just gave me goosebumps…I couldn’t move. And the technique about showing a half-nekked woman brought this article back to memory :-)

10 Tammy Lenski July 18, 2008 at 10:41 am

I’m disappointed in you, Copyblogger.

Half-naked women? Sure, it works. But do you endorse things just because they work? If so, I can list a whole bunch of slimy things you might consider for your list.

This coming from Copyblogger feels surprising to me…like when someone whose integrity you value shows they just want to peak down your shirt after all. It’s like going back to high school.

11 WendyJRoan July 18, 2008 at 10:44 am

Thank you for sharing this on Twitter. I found it an enlightening post. No images of how I would implement some of your suggestions popped into my head right away. I will have to think about it a bit. Certainly, my blog can use some more character. Thank you! This was helpful to me. — Wendy J. Roan

12 Brian Clark July 18, 2008 at 10:46 am

Tammy, I believe that was an attempt at humor. You know, break up the list with some levity?

As Jon said, bloggers are far too serious. Blog readers, too.

13 Ron July 18, 2008 at 10:47 am

This first thing I thought about when I read the headline was Pick Up Artists. I read the book The Game awhile back and eventually realized the best thing you can do when trying to pick up women, was to make yourself more interesting. This of course relates to all aspects of life, including blogging.

To add a couple of things I learned.

#1 Talk in terms of the other person’s interest. Too often as bloggers it’s all about us. Remember who is listening.

#2 Do interesting stuff. If you met someone and they said they had a blog you’d be ho-hum. But if they said they raced cars, you’d be interested. Be out of the ordinary.

14 Tammy Lenski July 18, 2008 at 10:49 am

Brian, that’s not good enough. We women have just heard too many men tell us to lighten up after we’ve heard the 10,000th sexist joke. It’s a predictable response that does nothing for me. I do appreciate your direct note, though.

15 Brian Clark July 18, 2008 at 10:54 am

Well Tammy, the post Jon pointed to with the picture was from Sonia Simone (which is the reason it’s funny).

Irony, not sexism.

16 WebSite Design Orange County July 18, 2008 at 11:05 am

…and then one time at band camp

17 Tammy Lenski July 18, 2008 at 11:06 am

Brian, here’s a tip from a conflict resolution expert: Defending doesn’t work well because the person who disagrees with you finds your defensive response lacking. That’s the case here.

Explaining doesn’t work, because it assumes benign intention sanitizes unpleasant impact. That’s the case here.

Acknowledging works, because acknowledgment and agreement are not the same. Acknowledging works because it (a) sends the message the blogger appreciates the reader’s interaction, (b) sends the message you’re willing to consider an alternative view, and (c) sends the message that you comprehend that there are many legitimate views.

18 Karen Post July 18, 2008 at 11:17 am

I so enjoy and benefit from all your writing. Your point on, courage to say what your really think, is my favorite. I’m an entrepreneur who blogs and is a professional speaker. One of my greatest experiences was enrolling in a stand up comedy class. This is great place to practice “being interesting and nothing is sacred”. It also unleashed so much of my reluctance to be really honest.

19 Brian Clark July 18, 2008 at 11:17 am

Tammy, I didn’t write this post, Jon did. It’s up to Jon to acknowledge your competing viewpoint as the author, not me.

I’m just sharing my point of view, just like you are. Mine happens to be different from yours, but you seem to think you’re automatically entitled to be right. In case you didn’t get the memo, being rigidly PC and humorless is not as cool as it never used to be.

Quit telling me how to think and what to say, and I’ll show you the same courtesy. You’re coming across as more of a bully than a conflict resolution expert.

20 gaston monescu July 18, 2008 at 11:30 am

22) read the new yorker

21 Janice Cartier July 18, 2008 at 11:40 am

Tammy-Let’s use your formula: You don’t like to see the naked figure used to illustrate a point. You somehow think less of those who do. Have I got that right?

Jon- this is my favorite post you’ve written. For all the things it says about fully exploring the possibilities of communication in this discipline.

22 Jon Morrow July 18, 2008 at 11:43 am

Tammy: You seem to be looking for an apology. I can understand why, but I don’t feel one is justified, nor do I feel any explanation will satisfy you. So… I don’t think there’s anything else for me to say.

Ron: That’s absolutely right. What is dating, if it’s not about getting attention? These techniques apply there as well.

23 Kristen July 18, 2008 at 11:44 am

Loved the post (and the discussion is darn interesting,too!) I recently read Made to Stick (and reviewed it on my site in April) and this post certainly is (sticky)… Thanks for all the great ideas!! Now where can I find a picture of a scantily clad male… J/K!

24 Bill Stevens July 18, 2008 at 11:59 am

#14

Richard Dawkins

I mentioned him recently in a casual conversation and was almost thrown out of room.

25 Jack Kuperman July 18, 2008 at 11:59 am

What should I do if I have a story and nothing else?

No right and no wrong, no half nakeds that take aspirin.
Instead of being irreverent, it’s irrelevant.

And of course it lacks readers.

But the story! The story!

26 Jacqueline from SEOGroup July 18, 2008 at 12:01 pm

I like to be a little (okay, more than a little sometimes) irreverent in my blog posts. Ultra serious writing can be pretty dry and boring to read, and I’d rather write in a voice that is more similar to how people actually talk.

27 Janice Cartier July 18, 2008 at 12:12 pm

Hm. A little nudity and things get sticky.

Yep Brian, I said that …because I know you stock plenty of towels.

28 Brian Clark July 18, 2008 at 12:34 pm

OK, now *I’m* offended. OK, not really. :-)

29 Bucktowndusty @ FromThePen.com July 18, 2008 at 12:45 pm

Dear Tammy,

As far as I know, that was your first ever comment, and you didn’t even introduce yourself first, compliment Brian on his tie, or wait till after you ate to complain to the waiter about the food. How offensive!

30 LiviuX July 18, 2008 at 12:52 pm

This post is useless. You can’t be interesting from reading a post.

31 Janice Cartier July 18, 2008 at 1:40 pm

Nope especially if that post is up your butt. Hit delete, Jan , hit delete…..oh, no Mr. Bill……oh no…..

32 Alex Fayle July 18, 2008 at 2:07 pm

I think this has been one of the most enjoyable comment threads I’ve ever read on here. More more!

There’s a post for you guys - how to leverage your commentors to bring in traffic…

33 Bill Stevens July 18, 2008 at 2:39 pm

I think what happened with Tammy and Brian is Tammy came here and turned everything around with #2, #5, #8, #12, and #13.

I just know this was a traffic building technique she was trying to use to get us to browse over to her site. Which I did. Ahhh!! Got me!! Nice site by the way. I like the updateable story area with Ajax (it looks like Ajax anyway) :) Sorry, once a geek always a geek.

34 Todd Andrews July 18, 2008 at 3:02 pm

The only thing worse than a boring post, is a boring comment (<—)

35 WendyJRoan July 18, 2008 at 3:17 pm

Should I respond — Should I leave it alone

After grappling with myself for a bit…

My thoughts as I read the post and then my opinion about the comments afterward.

I noticed the reference to a naked girl. I thought “yep… too bad that works”. I made a split second **choice** not to look further into that.

I moved on to the next bullet point - because I care about marketing and people’s insights and experience regarding it.

I enjoyed the rest of the post - essentially taking what I could use, what made the most sense for my style and personality, and just left the rest.

It’s all about choice, acceptance of what we cannot change and priorities.

I personally knew I would be offended (yes I guess I’m a bit conservative) by the naked girl - so, I didn’t go there.

I love the information here. It’s not new, but it is from a new perspective.

The only thing I could add to this post about how to be interesting is this: Don’t forget to still be yourself. You can push yourself out of your comfort zone and try something different for sure. But, it’s my hope that people don’t don’t create a false image of themselves - thereby not really being true to themselves.

36 pia July 18, 2008 at 5:12 pm

A great post, except for the naked girl bit. I agree with Tammy, both her initial comment and her comment about jokes and lightening up. Don’t tell us to lighten up Brian when it is not you struggling to get men to relate to you beyond your appearance.
On the other hand Jon did say it is ‘interesting’ to be ‘wrong’ in a post. You were Jon…and it is interesting… and gosh it works…I am duped again:-)

37 Janice Cartier July 18, 2008 at 5:24 pm

Pia- Did you read Sonia’s article?

38 Sonia Simone July 18, 2008 at 6:07 pm

I feel like I should write something, but I can’t come up with anything interesting. What the hell, I’ll give it a shot.

I wrote a post about being virtually naked. We used an image of a naked woman. The image attracted a lot of attention to the words, which is the bit I care about.

Different people will see it with different eyes, but I didn’t see anything nasty or sexist or exploitative in the image we picked. Startling, sure. We don’t get a lot of naked on copyblogger.

Frankly, I deal with some pretty disgusting sexism on a not-infrequent basis in the professional world. People (ok, men) who don’t take women’s ideas seriously, who value work less because it’s produced by women, and who simply can’t get beyond their own definition of a woman as about 65% of a man.

I get so tired of this I could put a fork in somebody’s eye. It pisses me off in a very major way. If I’m going to go to the barricades, it’s going to be over that.

I’ve never had the slightest inkling of that kind of BS in my professional dealings with Brian or Jon. They respect me, they respect my work, my biology doesn’t particularly seem to interest them. It’s really quite refreshing.

I understand that other women (and sometimes men) have a different reaction. Just speaking for myself, naked ladies don’t bother me. People like to look at pictures of naked people. *I* like to look at pictures of naked people. Naked people are inherently interesting. I just see it as a fascinating bit of monkey-wiring.

And yeah, I do think it would work with a naked guy as well. It’s a different dynamic, but it’s still interesting.

That’s how I see it. You may see it differently.

39 Sonia Simone July 18, 2008 at 6:11 pm

oh, p.s., I forgot the most important thing–Jon, I loved this post! Bookmarking it for when I am desperate to come up with decent post ideas.

40 Kelly July 18, 2008 at 6:16 pm

Janice,

Thank you for saying what I waited until reading all the comments to say. The post is about opening out your inner self. This is like panning a book or a movie you refuse to read.

But at least there are commenters who understand Jon’s #1 pretty well. Except it turns out it’s not always interesting.

Jon,

I always enjoy your writing but this one is especially fine.

#20 is what I wish for, of course, don’t we all? But #21 is the money tip.

“The one and only thing of consequence is your reader. You can rail against this fact for as long as you like, but as long you do, you’ll never be interesting.”

Yes, yes. Love it.

Regards,

Kelly

41 Ronald H. July 18, 2008 at 6:32 pm

I gotta hand it to you Jonathan, great article buddy. I’ll need this one in the future. write more please.

42 William July 18, 2008 at 6:41 pm

I think the real way to drive a large amount of visitors to your blog and make real money out of it, is run a blog about the art of writing or advertising your blog like Copyblogger…

Am I wrong ?

Still, I enjoy Copyblogger because it helps me run a better blog ; but not one I will ever be able to draw a living from, I am afraid.

43 Kelly July 18, 2008 at 7:06 pm

William,

Even Copyblogger was a baby once.

44 William July 18, 2008 at 7:27 pm

Yes of course, but it grew quickly thanks to the topics aimed at bloggers in general.

I am not criticising Copyblogger’s success. It deserves it.

I just want to say that reading some of the topics discussed, any beginner might think that they will reach a similar amount of subscribers if they follow the advices given. This is simply not the case. That’s fine as long as we know it.

In some way what we see claimed in Copyblogger and other blogs of the sort, is like a pyramid sale where only the few at the top make real money.

If you are not blogging about the art of blogging, don’t give up your day job ; you’ll still need it for a very long time, if not, for ever.

I guess I am saying all that because I am envious…

45 Jon Morrow July 18, 2008 at 9:07 pm

Sonia: Comments like the one above make me feel like a tongue-tied fool. Thank you. :-)

William: It looks that way sometimes, doesn’t it? Some of the biggest blogs out there are about marketing topics. It’s easy to believe that they’re successful because of their subject matter.

But really, that’s not the case. Look at all of the successful blogs in niches like personal finance and tech. Many of them are even bigger and more profitable than Copyblogger (not that we’re a lightweight by any means).

Your niche does influence how big your blog can become, but it’s not nearly as important as you might think. All of the techniques here on Copyblogger have worked in hundreds of niches.

Just keep reading. It took me over two years of reading Copyblogger to really start to understand and apply everything. Stick with it, and it will come together for you.

46 Sonia Simone July 18, 2008 at 9:48 pm

Oh my goodness, I tongue-tied Jon, didn’t know that was possible. ;)

William, it may surprise you (it surprised me) that Darren Rowse does far better financially with his photography blog than he does with Problogger.

If you want to draw income from a blog, there are a number of ways to do that. Starting a how-to-blog blog or a marketing blog is probably the worst. (Trust me.) Stay open to possibilities & keep studying the craft of blogging, and don’t let yourself get discouraged. Some subjects are more profitable than others, for sure. But you don’t necessarily get a very good idea of what the more profitable subjects are just by looking at the technorati top 100.

Let’s say you had a blog about koi ponds. If you created a loyal following, then created some eBooks and videos or even a full-blown Teaching Sells-style learning environment about koi ponds, you could make a decent amount of money with it. There are people making a living on weirder niches than that, believe me.

It takes a lot of work. It takes a fair bit of knowledge. It takes focused effort. Sometimes it takes some creativity & trial and error. But it’s not magic.

47 Jack Kuperman July 18, 2008 at 11:12 pm

Sonia, I would like to put some more nails into the pseudo-puritan coffin that you prepared with your first answer about nudity.
I am very interested to see all those who are that shy as to read your blog, come to Louvre. There are hundreds of rooms with naked women. What would they say there? Improper? How? Nobody said anything about nudity in times of Rubin. Are we going back?
To speak about undressing it’s so logic just to show the end result of it -nudity.

This reminds me a joke:
One sales person had to reach a large city. But on way there he stopped in a little town with inly one main street. The man decided to stay for the night in the town. Suddenly he saw that his watch stopped. After checking into the hotel, he went out to look for a watch repairman.
Towards the end of the street he saw a shop with a large watch in it’s window.
Glad that he found what he was looking for, the man entered in.
An old man stayed there near the wall and sharpened scissors.
Our man took down the watch from his hand and showed it to the old man.
-Young man! Do you want to give me your watch?
-Yes
-But why?
-So that you will repair it.
-But I don’t repair watches!
-Not? Then what do you do?
-I am circumsciser.
-Ah! That’s why scissors?
-Oh no. Scissors are for my nails.
-Well. You are circumsciser. But why did you put a watch in shop window?
-And what did you want me to put there?

And Jonathan, It’s a great post as it is. The all of it. Even comments (but this last)

48 Ricardo Bueno July 18, 2008 at 11:41 pm

Now here’s a list of solid advice that I can put to good use right away! Being consistently interesting is a tough thing to achieve in our blogging efforts. But I would imagine that a good combination of the advice listed here is a good way to stay on top of it…

49 William July 19, 2008 at 3:06 am

Sonia, Jon thanks for your comments. It is true that I am targetting a fairly small market. I feel today less like a victim and more like exploring new avenues to increase my reader base.

50 Barbara Ling July 19, 2008 at 5:01 am

Did someone mention ‘band camp’? :)

I’d love to preach the way things SHOULD be (okay, that’s a blatant lie - preaching is ‘way boring to me) but the fact remains, people will gyrate to what THEY find fascinating and NOT what I adorn with whatever moralities I might uncover.

Half-clad women certainly don’t do it for me, but if you put up a sexy Macgyver, you’ve got my (admittedly brief) attention…your quality has to compel me to continue to read.

And if you put up some ‘here’s how NOT to be pounded into a pancake when the 5th degree black belt spars you into oblivion’… my gosh, instant fervor on my part!

But I’ll bet I’m kinda sorta unique that way. :)

Data points, Barbara

51 Peter Knight July 19, 2008 at 9:06 am

This is a good post - alas, I tend to be a bore: I’ve book marked this post as a “spice rack” and will come back to these items from time to time … thank you!

52 Marisa July 19, 2008 at 9:35 am

Be wrong. Then laugh at yourself.

(Half) naked women?
Why not kittens and puppies?

Great post. Grazie!

53 Austin(Cowsgonemadd3) July 19, 2008 at 11:16 am

I think I do this on my blog. Nice list.

54 Sonia Simone July 19, 2008 at 2:04 pm

@William, that makes me so happy. I clicked through to your site–though I don’t read French well (in English I would rather write; in French I would rather talk), I think you may well find some avenues worth pursuing. I am very glad we could help you re-find your optimism.

55 Sonia Simone July 19, 2008 at 2:06 pm

@Marisa, I’m quite partial to pictures of adorable toddlers. Seems to work for my crowd, anyway.

Really if I had my way I’d illustrate every post with a LOLCat, but I think I’d have a mutiny on my hands.

56 Wayne Tully July 19, 2008 at 3:14 pm

All these tips between copyblogger and problogger are making me more and more inspired to become a full time blogger, just got to get rid of the day job first, but not yet as I am only learning, then I will!

57 Tage July 19, 2008 at 4:16 pm

Being startlingly honest can often back fire, especially in the political arena. Often times, people don’t even know what they actually need, and politicians just tell them but we “want” to hear. When one honest person comes along and spits the truth, they are often berated with hateful comments.

58 Jon Morrow July 19, 2008 at 7:38 pm

Tage: That’s a good observation. If you really think about it, all of these strategies can backfire. It works though, even in politics. Look at how much attention Ron Paul was able to gain. Did it win him the nomination? No. But his honesty still caught the attention of LOTS of people.

59 Angel Cuala July 19, 2008 at 8:20 pm

Very true! Pictures of half naked women are very interesting to see. However, I think it will only distract your readers unless your post is about the picture.

But I like the last part. All of us are blogging for our readers so we really must prioritized them.

60 Mike July 19, 2008 at 10:44 pm

Hey Jon,

Sorry I’m late to this party. I’d have loved to been a fly on this wall ;-)

I’m gonna skip the silly parts of this one and just say that Tip #20 is the lead dog for my sled.

I kinda said the same thing in a post about Meat Loaf-

“Meat Loaf never just sang a song. He held musical events. Each and every song seemed to be an over-the-top, way over-done extravaganza.”

Damn fine work.

61 ricardo penachi de camargo July 20, 2008 at 5:58 am

Excellent tips. To be wrong is needed courage. Or perhaps be very out of things …
Creating the new and different is to few. This article is hardly an example of suggested. Hugs from Brazil!

62 Jesse Hines July 20, 2008 at 12:59 pm

My favorite idea here:

“Bloggers are far too serious. We’re so busy trying to teach that we forget to entertain.”

In fact, if our writing isn’t entertaining, we’re probably not writing that well in the first place.

63 Dean Saliba July 20, 2008 at 1:32 pm

Great post. Certainly gives me a lot to think about. :)

64 forest July 20, 2008 at 4:51 pm

Great post.
Thanks

65 Free List of 195 Keyword Suggestions July 20, 2008 at 6:42 pm

Great post, I think the put your readers first is the most relevant to me, I go out of my way to provide helpful content and it pays off.

66 Shane Greenhough July 21, 2008 at 2:39 am

Great post… and Tammy’s response proves several points made in the article itself, be courageous, have the balls to say something that not everyone will appreciate, of course, Copyblogger is established enough that your readers know what to expect and making statements that not everyone will like is sort of what we want from you..

67 John Hoff - eVentureBiz July 22, 2008 at 9:15 am

Excellent list, Jon. It’s challenging keeping the ball rolling and not become lazy which leads to boring. I like lists like these because it summarizes a bunch of ideas and blog articles into one quick powerful post.

68 Eamon July 22, 2008 at 12:28 pm

Mmm.

Great article from Copyblogger (once again) and one of my favourite.

I liked the first point the best. Firstly, because it caught my attention. Secondly, because it is original. Thirdly, because it is good advice. And, fourthly, because if you are a person offering, say, marketing advice, then being provocative can, in many cases, be just as valuable as being correct.

And, lastly, just like to add that ‘being interesting’ is, also, bound up, closely, with telling an interesting brand story overall.

69 Donna - Mortgage loans July 24, 2008 at 4:49 am

One of the best articles on being different and get noticed. Being nice and easy comes naturally to most, which is common, Being wrong,funny or dorky is takes some conscious effort.

70 Susan Raab July 28, 2008 at 4:55 pm

Of all the copyblogger posts I’ve seen so far, I like this one best because it pushes me to create something completely new and unique. Many of your articles invite me to stand on the shoulders of giants and leverage their writing techniques. This one stands out because it calls me to dig into my own subjective personal experience, to take risks and push the edge.

Thanks for the great post. I’ll refer back to it often.

71 charles July 31, 2008 at 9:18 am

Nice!

I was so shocked when you said: “Be wrong”. You get attention but do you really get the trust and value from your readers? There might be a great decrease in the number of readers and wouldn’t believe you anymore. I can say that it is good at the first place but in the long run it might be bad to your image.

72 Mike August 7, 2008 at 3:00 am

If there is one killer article I would recommend to any novice blogger like me then this is gotta be it. Man, I learned a lot from this and believe me you’ll see some of these principles applied in my succeding blogs. Thanks guys. I actually linked you up in my blog so my blogger friends can also benefit from this site. More power!

73 Steve - Eightyone Design August 11, 2008 at 5:08 am

Wow, what a great article - it’s great to have something to keep referring back too when you lose your blogging way.

74 Workplace September 10, 2008 at 10:56 am

Wow! 20 tips! I guess everyone can make their blog intresting if they follow your 3-4 tips .

75 Pieter - J8 zoekmachineoptimalisatie September 12, 2008 at 3:57 am

Some nice tips indeed! thank you for sharing!

76 Latarsha October 7, 2008 at 12:04 pm

Thanks for the words of advice.

My fave: Do SOMEthing to stir ‘em up. In fact, my favorite internet hang-out spots often have a way of stirring my mind.

Thanks!

77 Social Media Marketing October 8, 2008 at 7:22 pm

haye interesting post. I am new to blogging too. my blog has got the ranking in google but still there are not much visitors on that and the reason could be, I am unable to develop the interest. I guess, your post will help me a lot. Thanks a lot buddy.

78 Ovidiu - LayoutGarden.com October 14, 2008 at 8:35 am

Very interesting post, as almost all the post you have here!

79 Ravi Ahuja October 18, 2008 at 6:07 am

Hello Jonathan,
Your post and advice are very different from others and true. I like your post because you suggest the things which are not normally suggested like in this post “Be Wrong” a different thing which not normally person tries to do.

80 Tim October 21, 2008 at 7:43 am

Great post - loads of ideas. Thanks for this one…

81 Valeria | TimelessLessons November 7, 2008 at 12:03 pm

All these tips between copyblogger and problogger are making me more and more inspired to become a full time blogger, just got to get rid of the day job first, but not yet as I am only learning, then I will!

82 Mico Blanco November 10, 2008 at 10:45 pm

Nice post again… I agree! Being interesting it one of the most important characteristics of a great blog or even an article. It will make your visitors keep coming back.

Design can also play a vital role in determining a good blog. Usually, people often stays in a blog longer when the blog has cool and pleasant to eye designs.

By the way… I think I will rather choose to “be right” and not to “be wrong” hehe. I wanted to be popular in a nice way.

83 Jimmy November 14, 2008 at 6:54 pm

I like the (half) naked woman proof! Don’t know how you guys do it with these great tips everyday. Also, what about: leave room for others to contribute and show off their expertise?

84 New York County Real Estate January 17, 2009 at 8:27 am

Yeah, the (half) naked woman was great! You don’t happen to have any more proof of that, do you? I’m not fully convinced yet…

85 Site O Rific January 19, 2009 at 5:26 pm

A nice refresher! It can be hard to be entertaining with a blog about small business web development. But you give me inspiration.

86 Dennis Foreman January 31, 2009 at 6:14 pm

As I read your post I was reflecting upon how many of these techniques would work for non-blog websites. My conclusion is that several would! The post shakes up conventional thinking about what one ’should’ write copy about.

Thanks for the shake :-)
Dennis

87 Louver February 10, 2009 at 12:49 am

I remember my teacher in writing back in college. She said, the most important rule to be interesting when we write is to - exaggerate!

88 VoteAudrey February 17, 2009 at 8:34 pm

I think being interesting starts with irreverence, adding life’s foils and tossing a laugh at yourself. Great post, thanks for the share.

89 Darren Chow March 9, 2009 at 1:36 am

Of the 21 points listed above, I like this one best: Unleash your inner dork. It brings a smile to my face. Perhaps a dork like me can identify with another dork.

Very good post. Thumbs up.

90 Doug Caldwell March 19, 2009 at 5:24 pm

Thanks for the blogging insights. It’s not what you do [say] in your blog but what you ‘be’. Being an interesting person gets the readers and twitter followers. I am attracted by those bloggers/twitters that are interesting. Like you. You get my stumbleupon vote and a tweet.

91 Nikki Romero March 19, 2009 at 10:10 pm

I’m beginning to be addicted to your blog! Sooo interesting! ;p

The scantily clad woman also offends me, but I guess it does work (sadly!). Why don’t we test scantily clad men too? LOL.

I think part of the reason it’s in the list is because of its controversy. Controversy always attracts attention.

92 VlogHog March 24, 2009 at 11:58 am

This is a great blog. Actual content that I can use.

93 portland web design March 25, 2009 at 12:03 pm

I’m glad I found your blog, it was on the IM Top Blogs and somewhere else yesterday… so great information, thank you - and I know this is a boring comment - my apologies :)…

94 Stephanie Valentine March 25, 2009 at 6:41 pm

Ahh, the art of unleashing your inner dork! I love what David Meerman Scott said about it being OK to be a dork online (from time to time, not all the time, of course!). It’s true. Chris Brogan was just recently an online dork … he sent emails to the wrong email group. He had to apologize and people loved it! It showed them he was human instead of superhuman. Well, OK, maybe he is still superhuman and he just make the dork mistake on purpose, but we still love him! Anyway, great list of 21 tips and the inner dork tip is the best. It encourages those who are afraid to speak up online to dive right in. It is OK to be a dork … don’t worry about it, someone will be sure to correct you! Cheers, Stephanie

95 Robert Kirk March 31, 2009 at 3:57 pm

interesting article, forwarded this on to a few work mates and friends to read

96 Patsy April 1, 2009 at 5:59 am

Wow.. I’ve got to print this off and put on my desk so that I can read and remember it everyday! Great post, Jonathan!

97 anonymous April 1, 2009 at 11:04 pm

(in reference to #19)
this post is like the 21 laws of power for bloggers :)

thanks for the great information

98 Ally N. April 19, 2009 at 1:42 pm

I really enjoyed this! The best thing about it is that all of these things are completely logical and simple. They are points we all recognize and agree with. But it’s funny how writer’s block can hit and suddenly these tools become illusive and overwhelming. I’m definitely going to bookmark this entry and use it next time I get stuck!

Also, your “half-naked women” point reminded me of a rule that a teacher shared with my creative writing class back in high school. Someone asked him what the proper length would be for our next writing assignment. His response was, “It should be like a woman’s skirt. Long enough to cover the subject, but short enough to be interesting.” Ha! So I may add that to the list of tips.

99 JenChicago April 19, 2009 at 9:07 pm

Great information, as always, Brian!

BTW, Does anyone have another link to the video in #12? It looks like YouTube took it down.

100 Fred Nijm April 20, 2009 at 12:55 pm

Great article - and greatest advice - just tell people how you feel and be bold about it! Don’t worry about being wrong; state your feelings. Take risks - I am taking a risk to be the next eBAY. Check it out!

Visit http://www.Pricebeats.com

101 annie April 20, 2009 at 2:29 pm

A well-thought out list. I wish I could be interesting all the time or even at will occasionally, but I settle for modest readership because it’s not like anyone is paying me, right?

102 Mary Le April 27, 2009 at 2:12 pm

Im still stuck on number 8! I am living proof that sex sells, lol. In all seriousness though,this is a gr8 article.Totally loving number: 11) Unleash your inner dork

thats exactly how I feel when I write.i see it as my ‘alter ego’ … almost like Beyonce/sasha fierce!!

…but i think ‘inner dork’ works just as well! x

103 fefos May 11, 2009 at 7:56 am

Excellent tips.Thanx

104 way May 14, 2009 at 9:10 pm

I like your “Be wrong” idea, this is so true. I saw many blogs like this and it really draws peoples attention.

105 Social Networking Lifestyle June 2, 2009 at 5:10 am

I just printed this off! There are some great tips to put to use and continue to encourage my friends to grow beyond their current comfort zone and do many of the things written about in this post. Thanks!

Timothy

106 Andy June 4, 2009 at 1:33 am

OK, This one was something that really made me sit erect and read.
Grt read. Grt advices and i think most of them will definitely work if you do them jus right.

Nice Work. Expect me back. :-)
Andy.

107 Monica Diaz June 6, 2009 at 9:56 am

Simple, informative, and set my mind reeling as to some of the options. Also helped me recognize a few things I do right. (Thanks for appreciating the writing, you are correct, we often forget that!) As for the naked women…it made me smile. Don’t think I’ll try it, though.. Still, I tried two facebook ads, one with a smiling young excec (woman) and other more professional looking with only guys. The appeal of the lovely woman won 3:1, regardless of client gender.

108 Cindy Cummins June 6, 2009 at 10:12 am

Refreshing. For more reasons than I’m willing to say here, just now. :)

109 Mrs Green from my zero waste June 6, 2009 at 3:42 pm

Have just tweeted this as it’s an excellent article, with many good points. I love the one about the aspirin and there are plenty of new ideas for me to keep in mind.

I find that the posts on my site where I have shown my ‘humaness’ by making a mistake or feeling deeply about something are the ones that get more responses. People love to know about people :)

When I’m stuck without inspiration, I shall re-read this and get my writing juices flowing again. Thank you for a great resource Jonathan!

110 Tia Dobi June 6, 2009 at 4:59 pm

Many bloggers crank out posts the way slaughterhouses crank out chickens?

Is this true…like a slaughterhause cranks out chickens?

111 Jon June 6, 2009 at 10:42 pm

:P Are people really that crazy over a tiny little suggestion that has been a universal marketing technique for decades? Notice he also said that women are attracted to such techniques? Are current Axe commercials offensive to you? Would you have been offended if he said “show a partly naked male?” Probably not…nor would most guys who would read that.

It is uptight and people should lighten up. If you’re offended, you should take a break from the computer.

Anyway great post, great list. Very useful information and definitely stuff to keep in mind.

112 Ray Gulick June 7, 2009 at 6:57 pm

Great post and an even better discussion; a virtual laboratory of online discussion.

113 Solomon June 8, 2009 at 8:09 am

Naturally, all learning happens when we give ourselves freedom to experiment. In that process make mistakes and learn to laugh at them. So did I as I started blogging with lots of quirky posts. :)
This post gives me lots of new perspectives to understand what readers might be interested to read.
By and large, I’m writing from my perspective, and not giving a thought if that interests others. Maybe, I need to give a thought about it, too.
Thanks for the lovely post, Jonathan!

114 Sean June 12, 2009 at 2:29 pm

Great, GREAT post. Definitely had me thinking about somethings that I do well, not so well, and others that I have never even considered! “Do Something” is a big one. Everyone talks about doing stuff, but its the people that actually live it that are the most interesting, and thus, most successful.

115 Moe Bedard July 7, 2009 at 7:20 pm

Having your own voice and blogging a monetizable niche is key. Couple that with hard work and you will succeed. Bloggers need to understand that it takes sometimes years to develop an audience and traffic.

Keep blogging and be different!

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